A rapid-fire round of fifteen things to never buy, take, or sign. One through-line ties them together: if someone is pushing a financial product hard, it is usually for them — not you.
01 — Don’t bank on gift cards
Hundreds of millions of dollars die unredeemed every single year.
Do instead: Give cash — it never expires.
Gift cash, not cards.
02 — Skip the extended warranty
On a tool or a used car, it’s a bad bet for you — and pure margin for them.
Do instead: Self-insure: bank what you’d have spent.
Warranties are a seller’s product.
03 — Refuse reverse mortgages
They’re built to prey on older homeowners who don’t see the full cost.
Do instead: Shield elderly relatives from the pitch.
Keep your parents far away from these.
04 — Beware the hard sell
If an expensive financial product is pushed aggressively, it’s probably bad for you.
Do instead: The harder the pitch, the faster you walk.
Aggressive pitch = their commission.
05 — Don’t pay 1% every year
General advisors are expensive hand-holders — not worth 1% of everything, annually.
Do instead: Use flat-fee advice, or index it yourself.
Every point of fee compounds against you.
06 — Avoid weak private schools
Around 3,000 medium-to-low-rated private schools simply won’t pay you back.
Do instead: Pick a strong public school — or skip it.
Don’t buy a degree that won’t pay.
07 — Ditch the dealership repair
The OEM dealer charges a steep premium for the exact same fix.
Do instead: A reputable indie shop runs about a third of the price.
Same repair. A third of the cost.
08 — Never take a payday loan
It is the most expensive money you will ever borrow — by a wide margin.
Do instead: Build a small buffer before you ever need one.
A payday loan is a trap, not a bridge.
09 — Don’t carry a credit balance
A revolving balance is paying a premium for the privilege of staying broke.
Do instead: Pay the statement in full, every month.
Carry a card, not a balance.
10 — Too good to be true? It is.
Hot stocks and crypto “sure things” are pure speculation — not a plan to build on.
Do instead: Invest on a plan, never on a tip.
Speculation isn’t a strategy.
11 — Don’t lend what you can’t lose
Assume from the start that you will never see the money again.
Do instead: If losing it would hurt, don’t lend it.
Treat every loan as a gift.
12 — Don’t build with friends or family
Going into business with people close to you usually ends up costing you both.
Do instead: Keep the friendship; skip the partnership.
Protect the relationship.
13 — Don’t lease the car
A lease is a permanent monthly payment for something you will never own.
Do instead: Buy used, then drive it paid-off for years.
Own the car, not the payment.
14 — Don’t co-sign
When you co-sign, their missed payment quietly becomes your debt.
Do instead: Their loan, their name, their risk.
Co-signing makes their risk yours.
15 — Don’t let lifestyle chase income
When spending climbs with every raise, you never actually get ahead.
Do instead: Bank the raise. Widen the gap.
The gap you create is the wealth you keep.